It is a word named after the Grimm fairy tale "The Frog King", which expresses the change of feelings to the opposite.
The frog phenomenon is not a phenomenon unique to women, but both men and women have the possibility of experiencing it.
There are various theories about the characteristics and overcoming methods of people who are prone to the frog phenomenon, but it seems that no clear cause or solution has been established yet.
I am not an expert on the cause of the frog phenomenon, so I cannot say anything definitive, but I thought of some possibilities.😊
- Disillusionment due to the gap between ideal and reality for the other person
- Lack of confidence in one's own romantic feelings, and feeling anxious or guilty about the other person's feelings
- A value system that values friendship or oneself more than romance
- Disgust or fear of the opposite sex or sexual intercourse
- Seeking an independent relationship without depending too much on the other person
Of course, these are just general hypotheses, and I think they vary depending on individual differences and situations.
To find out the cause of the frog phenomenon, it may be necessary to take a closer look at your own feelings and your relationship with the other person.🤔